Managing employees with career regret


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In exploring the psychological processes associated with career regret, research suggests HR professionals can help turn career regret into something more constructive

What if someone in your organisation was harbouring a secret? And what if that secret was that they felt their younger self had chosen the wrong occupation and they now felt resentful and stuck in a career they invested years in building?

‘Career’ is one area of life where individuals have the greatest regrets. Yet most of us wouldn’t feel comfortable telling our boss how much we wish we’d chosen something different.

Our recent research among healthcare professionals confirms that we would be right to worry that it reflected on our levels of commitment to the job – those who have occupational regret are likely to be less committed and less emotionally attached to their occupation.

This is problematic for organisations because lower commitment leads to withdrawal behaviours including low motivation, disengagement and absenteeism.

Unlike regrets about past events or regrets for something not done, regret about the decision to enter an occupation is especially painful because it remains current.

We have to ‘live’ it and often feel stuck. The money, time and effort invested into a career path can be a barrier to making a job change. It can also be difficult to let go of the status attached to an established career and start from scratch. In our research 62% of our sample felt they had put too much into their career path to consider changing.

We also found that negative comparisons were central to career regret. Our study asked people to ‘rate’ their career choice against another profession. Those who chose to compare with a profession that they thought was ‘better’ than their own were more likely to feel regret about their own choice.

So how does this inform how HR teams should respond if an employee lets their manager know how they really feel?

Firstly, although it may seem counter-intuitive, their honesty should be welcomed. Discretionary effort diminishes with lower commitment. An individual’s poor performance can be disruptive for teams, and there can be no solution if managers don’t really understand the cause.

Coaching can put the individual in a more positive frame of mind. Rather than comparing their choice with ‘what might have been’, help them to focus on what they have gained through their career, the skills developed and contacts made.

Based on that knowledge it may be possible to plan lateral moves and other opportunities to build on the skills they most value. That enables the organisation to continue to gain from the employee’s contribution and the employee to feel less ‘stuck’ because they are moving in a direction they feel better suited to.

HR practices that help to reveal true passions and strengths improve the deployment of people into jobs where their passions are fulfilled and their talents are better used.

This is aligned with a positive psychology approach to career development, strengths-based talent management rather than a gap approach focused on the remediation of ‘development needs’.

Looking after the needs of an employee with a hidden career regret may soon become even more of a necessity. While we cannot accurately forecast the effect of technologies such as robotics and artificial intelligence on work we know that they will be disruptive.

Some estimates suggest that two billion jobs will be lost to AI over the next decade, many of them roles that organisations cannot function without in the short term.

HR departments will need to rise to the challenge of keeping these employees motivated and engaged, even though it would be natural for them to regret picking an occupation facing an uncertain future. With our occupations changing underneath our noses, perhaps career regret should no longer be taboo.

Ali Budjanovcanin is a lecturer in work psychology and human resources management, David Guest is a professor in organisational psychology and HRM, and Ricardo Rodrigues is a senior lecturer in human resource management at King’s College London Business School


Great piece that highlights the importance of helping individuals to make informed career choices and the need to consider how we give people the information they need to make those choices. This is all the more important given that much of this decision making happens during the teenage years, when we may not yet know or understand our preferences. And for those that choose professions requiring extensive additional training (such as medicine or law) there could be even more potential to fall into the 62% who feel they have put too much into their career path to act upon a change of heart. WPG has recently supported the British Medical Association in the development of the Speciality Explorer tool which supports decision making in speciality career choices in medicine. But perhaps fear of regret is a contributing factor to the rise of the portfolio career. It’s also important, as the piece suggests, to support employees who find themselves regretting their choices. Thankfully, the days of needing people to tick every single skills box are behind us. Technical expertise will always be important but cultural fit – alignment of the values, attitude and approach of employer and employee - is becoming increasingly valued. Part of this is about employers being open to job crafting – fitting roles to what individuals enjoy and what makes them thrive - to keep good people feeling engaged, motivated, challenged, fulfilled and able to say je ne regrette rien!”

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